We convince ourselves that life will get better after getting married, having a baby, and then another. Then we were frustrated, because the kids were little and we would be happier if they were old enough. After that we were frustrated again, because they had to deal with adolescent children with various problems. We'd be happier if the particularity already passed this phase. We say to ourselves, that our lives would be perfect if either husband or wife were kind, if we have a nice car, and can vacation in a beautiful place, if we retire, etc.
In fact, there's no better time to be happy compared to today.
Life is always full of challenges. There are always obstacles, there is always something that we have to go through, the problems that have not been resolved, the debt to be paid.
Accept this fact and decide to be happy right now.
Do not wait until to finish schooling, until you get back to school again, until the body is more slender, up to weight gain go up, until have children, until the children independent and leave home, until to start work, until retirement, until marriage, until Sunday night, until Sunday morning, until the death to decide that there is no better time than now to be happy. ^ - ^
Source: MEDIA WANITA Aura: kaya informasi, sarat inspirasi (No. 49 / TH.XII; Minggu Ke-5; 31 Desember 2008 - 6 Januari 2009) with arrangement.
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